All things considered, sex toys are doing the most. We've been lucky enough to live in a time where they are able to bless us with a wide variety of tantalizing sensations, no matter what we're in the mood for. In need of a clitoral vibrator, as recommended by a sex therapist? We've got you covered. How about a whisper-quiet vibrator that won't risk alerting your roommates of its presence? We've got them in spades! But finding a toy that even sort-of, kind-of attempts to simulate the feeling of oral sex (at least for people who have vulvas) is a challenge.
It's not a huge surprise that replicating the feel of oral sex isn't easily accomplished. When a partner goes down on you, they're able to control the movements of their mouth to go faster or slower. They can switch between all kinds of sensations: sucking, pulling, licking — even teeth can get in the mix. And most importantly, a tongue is generally both wet and warm, not the easiest sensation for a toy to recreate — but, thanks to ever-evolving technology, we're edging closer. From tongue vibrators to the viral rose, we've pulled the top-rated oral sex toys that have customers shouting out for more.
While we can't promise that any of the following toys will feel exactly like oral sex, we can say that (according to very pleased internet reviewers) they come pretty damn close. Ahead, browse the 21 best oral sex toys out there that reviewers swear by.
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