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You may have heard about the importance of peeing after sex to avoid urinary tract infections. But what about peeing before sex? It turns out, that can

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Despite my appreciation for the excitement of casual sex, most of the time, I tend to be too anxious to enjoy it. Not to mention, I fall in love easily.

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Unfortunately, sex after childbirth is still a topic that makes people uncomfortable. But while pregnancy, childbirth, and a new baby will likely change

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Maybe during pregnancy you feel bloated, tired, and nauseated, and sex is the furthest thing from your mind. Maybe you're at a point at which hormones are

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The decision to move in with your partner gets a lot of attention. Getting married and having children also hogs the spotlight. However, there's another

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