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9 Snuggly Sex Positions for When It's Cold Outside
Sophie Saint Thomas
Jan 4, 2018
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The Sex Toy That'll Make Your Orgasms So Much Stronger
Kathryn Lindsay
Nov 21, 2017
Sex
These 16 Household Items Work As Sex Toys — And You May Already Own Them
Sophie Saint Thomas
Nov 15, 2017
Sex Tips
These Positions Will Make Anal Sex Totally Hot
Butt sex can be incredible — but anal sex demands respect. As psychologist David Ley, PhD, once told Refinery29: "If you try to do it the way most porn
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Sex
Everything You Need To Know About First-Time Anal Sex
Anal sex can be one of three things: terrifying, terrible, or terrific. Maybe you’ve heard horror stories (thanks, Tucker Max) and you’re not even
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Ashley Ross
Sex
Hot Sex Positions For When You Want To Be On Top
It feels good to be on top — of your career, your to-do list, and, of course, your partner during sex. Being on top during sex, otherwise known as
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Sex Tips
Want To Be A Better Kisser? Try These Tips
In honor of International Kissing Day on July 6, we're bringing this story to your attention again. Kissing is something everyone learned how to do
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Sex School
Why It's Important To Pee Before Sex — Even If You Think It ...
You may have heard about the importance of peeing after sex to avoid urinary tract infections. But what about peeing before sex? It turns out, that can
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Sex
5 Mystical Ways To Have Amazing Full Moon Sex
This article was originally published on April 5, 2017. We're bringing it to your attention now in light of this month's upcoming full moon. The next
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Sex & Relationships
All Of The Mind-Blowing Tricks To Making Sex Last Longer
This may sound painfully obvious, but the longer sex lasts, the longer you're spending intimate time with your partner — which is a good thing. And as
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Sex
7 People On The Hottest Anonymous Sex They've Ever Had
Despite my appreciation for the excitement of casual sex, most of the time, I tend to be too anxious to enjoy it. Not to mention, I fall in love easily.
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Sex Toys
These Sex Handcuffs Will Start You On Your Kink Journey
Handcuffs are the ultimate BDSM sex toy for those looking to begin their adventure into the world of bondage. While a simple belt can be a great
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Sophie Saint Thomas
NYC Dating Guide
Here Are The Best Sex Shops In NYC
Along with its iconic skyscrapers and impressive selection of pizza locations, NYC is home to a true diversity of sex shops. Are you surprised? The city
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Kathryn Lindsay
Sex
Shibari Is A Beautiful Form Of Japanese Bondage — & It Demands Re...
For the average person who dabbles in bondage, adding a pair of handcuffs to their sex life is just a fun way to mix things up. For those who practice
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Mothership
My Relationship Ended Because I Wasn't Ready For Kids — But ...
When Elise* was 23, she began dating a man named Josh*. While they hit it off at first, the red flags began appearing after they were together for about
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Sex School
7 Ways You’re Putting On Condoms Wrong
Condoms can be an excellent form of birth control — when they're used correctly, that is. If you know how to put on a condom correctly, and you do so
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Sex Tips
These Are The Sexy Massage Candles You Need In Your Life
If mood lighting and sensual hot wax massages seem like cheesy romance novel tropes to you, we urge you to revisit that stance. The right massage candle
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Mothership
9 People Share Their Funniest Postpartum Sex Stories
Unfortunately, sex after childbirth is still a topic that makes people uncomfortable. But while pregnancy, childbirth, and a new baby will likely change
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Sex
I Can Orgasm Without My Genitals Being Touched — Am I A Freak?
Hey Refinery29, The other night, something embarrassing happened. I jizzed my pants. Well, the female equivalent of it. There's this guy named Sean
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Sex
How To Give A Massage That Will Have Your Partner Begging For More
Sometimes, getting a nice, long massage from your partner can feel better than sex. Luckily, you can have both. Giving your partner a massage (yes, it's
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Sex
14 Positions For Hot Pregnancy Sex
Maybe during pregnancy you feel bloated, tired, and nauseated, and sex is the furthest thing from your mind. Maybe you're at a point at which hormones are
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Hayley MacMillen
Sex Toys
Everything You Need To Know About Nipple Clamps
Your breasts are erogenous zones that deserve plenty of TLC during sex. And while being felt up can feel delightful, many people out there enjoy more
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Sex Tips
These Positions Will Make Shower Sex As Hot As It Sounds
Unfortunately, shower sex is sometimes a better idea than actual sexual activity. Showers are wet and slippery, which can lead to some awkward fumbling or
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Sex & Relationships
I Went To A Weed Play Party & Dear Lord Did I Have Fun
I'm what the weed industry folks call a "cannabist." It's a far more compassionate word for a marijuana enthusiast than "pothead." I also enjoy and attend
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Relationship Advice
Is It Time To Make Your S.O. Your Emergency Contact?
The decision to move in with your partner gets a lot of attention. Getting married and having children also hogs the spotlight. However, there's another
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Sex & Relationships
What To Do If You Get A Panic Attack During Sex
A few years ago, while an ex-partner was going down on me, I realized I was having trouble breathing. Then a sense of dread filled my head, and I felt
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Sex Tips
5 Fun Ways To Indulge Your Foot Fetish
Your feet deserve love. They're your base of support, and they take you everywhere you go. If any part of your body deserves some extra attention, it's
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Sex & Relationships
The Kinky Tendency You Might Not Realize You Have
In my first BDSM relationship, I was the submissive partner, and I was dating a dominant cis man who wanted to tie me up. He was also aroused by the
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Sex & Relationships
Why Some People Love Getting Their Penises Tortured
If you told someone with a penis that you were going to scratch, slap, or tie up their genitals, chances are, they'd recoil at the mere thought of the
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Sophie Saint Thomas
Mothership
What Happened When 10 People Came Out To Their Moms
I came out as bisexual when I moved to New York City right after college. I also identify as queer, but when I told my mom about my orientation, I simply
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Sophie Saint Thomas
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