7 People On The Hottest Anonymous Sex They've Ever Had

Despite my appreciation for the excitement of casual sex, most of the time, I tend to be too anxious to enjoy it. Not to mention, I fall in love easily. That being said, one of the best orgasms I ever had was from hooking up with a woman who I'd just met at a party and whose name I don't remember. It was extremely erotic: We both arrived at the event with men but snuck away to be alone together for a moment (we were both in open relationships, so we weren't cheating assholes, I swear). Maybe it was because we hardly knew each other, or because we had such a limited amount of time together, but it was totally hot and wrought with taboo.
So, why aren't we talking about these things more? Even if IRL anonymous hookups aren't for you, they might just tap into a secret fantasy of yours (or maybe not — that's okay, too). Inspired by my own experience, I asked seven people to share their favorite stories of anonymous sex encounters.
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while it felt pretty great at the time, it felt like I had labor pains for the next few days

"The first time I had anonymous sex was with a soldier from the nearby military base. I'm a 19-year-old bisexual girl from Louisiana. It turned out, he had a huge penis, and while it felt pretty great at the time, it felt like I had labor pains for the next few days. But it was actually an okay experience. Of course, I've had loads more since then! One was an Austrian-Australian boy who was about to head to prison for felony drug charges. I actually forgot his name, but he was really cool. We got so high together that we fell out of my chair while we were making out. That was definitely something to remember."
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one drink in, I was taking her underwear off back in her room

"I’m in my 30s and am a straight-passing dude who lives in Brooklyn. I was teaching for a series of remedial reading/charter schools across the country (think test prep but reading). I had a connecting flight in Texas that got canceled, and they put the whole flight (it was a small group of about 20 people) up for the night. I met another teacher on the bus to the hotel, and we had dinner and drinks together. At the time, I was not a big drinker, and one drink in, I was taking her underwear off back in her room. I woke up at 7 a.m., woke her up, we had breakfast and exchanged numbers. I texted her when I got back to where I was going, and the text bounced. I never had done anything like that before, or since."
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Our friends were in the hot tub watching

"The hottest anonymous sex I've ever had was New Year's Eve in a condo in Lake Tahoe. I’m a straight guy; this happened when I was 23-years-old. I met some folks with a friend at a Spazmatics concert at a casino. Afterwards, we went back to their place to party. They had a hot tub on the deck outside the huge window in the master bedroom overlooking the lake. A redhead from the area and I hooked up in the master bedroom with the lights on while our friends were in the hot tub watching. It was wild. I didn't get a last name or a number. The only sad part was that I left my watch on the nightstand, but it was well worth the story."
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Interestingly, it was some of the most intimate sex I've had in a long time

"I had very hot and very anonymous sex with a girl with blue hair at a sex party. She told me her (first) name early in the night, but I totally forgot it. I’m a 24-year-old queer woman from New York City. Anonymous sex is pretty common at sex parties. We were on a bed with tons and tons of other people, the orgy bed! Some other people were touching us (consensually) a little bit, but her and I were very focused on one another. It absolutely was a turn on that the sex was anonymous. Interestingly, it was some of the most intimate sex I've had in a long time. We held each other, we kissed, we just were still with one another after we came in the midst of the chaos. I think I came so hard because it was anonymous and at a sex party, but the coolest part of the anonymity was realizing that sex with a stranger didn't have to be rough — it could be romantic."
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I have a lingering craziness about this person

"I’m a 29-year-old male, mostly straight, but I hook up with guys every now and again. My best anonymous sex was with a guy I met a bar. We flirted a bit and headed to the bathroom and got it on. I think I have a lingering craziness about this person, because the sex was great and will never happen again."
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We fucked over the very filthy karaoke bar sink

"I had sex with someone anonymous in the bar bathroom of a karaoke joint once. I'm a straight woman in my 20s. I was totally fucked up, to be honest. I just wanted to feel something and live it up, since I had just gotten out of a very serious relationship. So I took this guy I met that night (we exchanged names, but I don't remember it) to the bar bathroom and we fucked over the very filthy karaoke bar sink. In the moment, it was exhilarating, however, I'm not sure the next morning anxiety was worth it. I'm more of a relationship person, in the end, but I'm not ashamed I had the experience."
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There was a language barrier that we just ignored

"When I was in college, I spent a summer abroad in London that included a weekend in Paris. I had a day-long love affair with a man I met in a park. I want to say his name was Noah, but I'm really not sure. There was a language barrier that we just ignored. I hadn't slept with anyone all summer, and after an afternoon of him showing me around the city, I took him back to my rented flat. I remember getting so wet walking around with him that when we finally got to my AirBnb, I was just...dripping. We had sex from behind, and it was one of two times in my entire life that I've come from penetrative sex alone. We both had plans that night with friends, so we went our separate ways, but I was totally chill with that. It's a memory I'll be very thankful for when I eventually settle down."

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