sex toy industry has had a hard time designing toys that even kind-of imitate oral sex (at least for people who have vulvas). And it makes sense. When a partner goes down on you, they're able to control their tongue movements and go faster, slower, or in different patterns. And, their tongue is generally both wet and warm. That's not a sensation that's easy to recreate.
Yet, many companies try. And thanks to
ever-evolving technology, they're getting way better at it. We won't promise that any of the following toys will feel exactly like oral sex. But they do a pretty damn good job of replicating the feeling. And whether or not it truly feels like there's a mouth down there, there's a good chance these sex toys will still help you orgasm. At Refinery29, we’re here to help you navigate this overwhelming world of stuff. All of our market picks are independently selected and curated by the editorial team. If you buy something we link to on our site, Refinery29 may earn commission. Better Love Blowfish
This palm-sized suction vibe from Ella Paradis' in-house sex toy brand
isn't just weirdly adorable. It's essentially two toys in one, since you can use either the suction or tongue-like end to recreate the feeling of your partner going down on you.
Blowfish Clitoral Stimulator,
$54.00 $21.60 Buy The Satisfyer Pro 2
The Satisfyer is like another version of the Womanizer, but with a less problematic name. This toy uses a similar pulse technology to send vibrations through your vulva. Lots of people have compared the Satsifyer to the Womanizer, and some prefer the Satisfyer
thanks to its softer vibrations and pretty design
Pro 2 Next Generation,
$59.95 $49.95 Buy PinkCherry Happy Little Sucker Clitoral Stimulator This slick toy combines both vibration and and suction movement to create the most intense, built-up orgasms. PinkCherry
Happy Little Sucker Clitoral Stimulator,
$79.99 $39.98 Buy Cal Exotics Red Hot Rechargeable Silicone Flickering Tongue Vibrator The unique tongue-shaped tip of this vibrator allegedly gives some of the most toe-curling, world-rocking Os in existence. Cal Exotics
Red Hot Rechargeable Silicone Flickering Tongue Vibrator, $44.99
Buy LELO ORA 2 If you want a toy that feels just like oral sex, you won't get much better than Lelo's Ora 2. Simply place the vibrating portion of the toy over your clitoris or wherever else you like and small, rotating beads inside the silicone will circle around like a tongue, making precise and controlled licks. LELO
$189.00 $141.75 Buy Svakom Siren Clitoral Stimulator Meet the oral sex toy that just won't quit: The Siren features a dual motor and a flexible, double-tongue tip that is gentle when you want it to be, and well, less gentle, when you want to rev things up. Svakom
Siren Clitoral Stimulator,
$144.90 $102.88 Buy We-Vibe Melt This sleek silicone clit stimulator can be enjoyed solo or paired with an app for partner-controlled play. No wonder people can't get enough. We-Vibe
Melt Clitoral Vibrator,
$169.00 $141.29 Buy Adam & Eve Tantalizer Clit Suction Massager The flared mouth of this suction vibrator provides concentrated air stimulation to your clit, and has eight different functions to keep things exciting — and intense. Adam and Eve
Tantalizer Clit Suction Massager,
$129.99 $119.99 Buy The Womanizer
Ignoring the kind of (okay,
) sexist name, the Womanizer was a game changer for anyone with a clitoris. While it may look like it "sucks" on your clit, the toy actually sends pulses of vibration through your vulva. And many people say it results in the
strongest and/or fastest orgasm
they've ever had.
$149.00 $134.00 Buy Lovehoney Sqweel 2 Oral Sex Simulator
The Sqweel 2 has had an upward battle in sex toy opinions, just based on the look of it. Many people claim that only someone who doesn't have a vulva could think these rotating "tongues"
actually feel like oral sex
. But, not everyone feels that way. Some people enjoy the sensation of Sqweel's silicone tongues "licking" them, even if it's not a perfect imitation of oral. So, there's no harm in giving it a try if you're intrigued.
Sqweel 2 Oral Sex Simulator, $39.99
Buy NewMaxer Licking Toy Clitoral Stimulator While it's difficult to really mimic the feel of a tongue (you know, one that your partner can move around in different patterns and speeds), many toys do a decent job with the help of soft silicone. This one, the NewMaxer Licking Toy, uses one larger "tongue" in the center for clitoral stimulation and several small silicone feelers around it to tease the rest of your vulva. NewMaxer
NewMaxer Licking Toy Clitoral Stimulator, $16.89
Buy TENGA Onacup Tenga's Onacup is one of many oral sex toys made for people with penises in mind. The company describes this toy as "a vacuum-fired deep throat blow-job you can keep on your bedside table." Who wouldn't want that? Tenga
TENGA Standard Edition Deep Throat Onacup, $16.99
Buy Fun Zone Vulcan Vibrating Ripe Mouth Male Masturbator There are lots of options when you're looking for fleshlights, the sex toys that are made for people to stick their penises inside. And some of them are more realistic than others. This toy, for example, looks like you're really putting your penis inside someone's mouth. You 2 Toys
Fun Zone Vulcan Vibrating Ripe Mouth Male Masturbator, $24.99