These 13 Sex Toys Mimic Oral Sex (Almost)

Up until recently, finding a sex toy that mimics oral sex has been hard. You want bondage toys? No problem. Missing penetrative sex? You're covered. Want a quiet vibrator that you can discretely pack into your suitcase? You got it.

But the sex toy industry has had a hard time designing toys that even kind-of imitate oral sex (at least for people who have vulvas). And it makes sense. When a partner goes down on you, they're able to control their tongue movements and go faster, slower, or in different patterns. And, their tongue is generally both wet and warm. That's not a sensation that's easy to recreate.


Yet, many companies try. And thanks to ever-evolving technology, they're getting way better at it. We won't promise that any of the following toys will feel exactly like oral sex. But they do a pretty damn good job of replicating the feeling. And whether or not it truly feels like there's a mouth down there, there's a good chance these sex toys will still help you orgasm.

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Better Love Blowfish

This palm-sized suction vibe from Ella Paradis' in-house sex toy brand Better Love isn't just weirdly adorable. It's essentially two toys in one, since you can use either the suction or tongue-like end to recreate the feeling of your partner going down on you.
Better Love Blowfish Clitoral Stimulator$54.00 $21.60 Buy

The Satisfyer Pro 2 

The Satisfyer is like another version of the Womanizer, but with a less problematic name. This toy uses a similar pulse technology to send vibrations through your vulva. Lots of people have compared the Satsifyer to the Womanizer, and some prefer the Satisfyer thanks to its softer vibrations and pretty design.
Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation$59.95 $49.95 Buy

PinkCherry Happy Little Sucker Clitoral Stimulator

This slick toy combines both vibration and and suction movement to create the most intense, built-up orgasms.
PinkCherry Happy Little Sucker Clitoral Stimulator$79.99 $39.98 Buy

Cal Exotics Red Hot Rechargeable Silicone Flickering Tongue Vibrator

The unique tongue-shaped tip of this vibrator allegedly gives some of the most toe-curling, world-rocking Os in existence.
Cal Exotics Red Hot Rechargeable Silicone Flickering Tongue Vibrator$44.99 Buy


If you want a toy that feels just like oral sex, you won't get much better than Lelo's Ora 2. Simply place the vibrating portion of the toy over your clitoris or wherever else you like and small, rotating beads inside the silicone will circle around like a tongue, making precise and controlled licks.
LELO ORA 2$189.00 $141.75 Buy

Svakom Siren Clitoral Stimulator

Meet the oral sex toy that just won't quit: The Siren features a dual motor and a flexible, double-tongue tip that is gentle when you want it to be, and well, less gentle, when you want to rev things up.
Svakom Siren Clitoral Stimulator$144.90 $102.88 Buy

We-Vibe Melt

This sleek silicone clit stimulator can be enjoyed solo or paired with an app for partner-controlled play. No wonder people can't get enough.
We-Vibe Melt Clitoral Vibrator$169.00 $141.29 Buy

Adam & Eve Tantalizer Clit Suction Massager

The flared mouth of this suction vibrator provides concentrated air stimulation to your clit, and has eight different functions to keep things exciting — and intense.
Adam and Eve Tantalizer Clit Suction Massager$129.99 $119.99 Buy

The Womanizer 

Ignoring the kind of (okay, very) sexist name, the Womanizer was a game changer for anyone with a clitoris. While it may look like it "sucks" on your clit, the toy actually sends pulses of vibration through your vulva. And many people say it results in the strongest and/or fastest orgasm they've ever had.
Womanizer Classic$149.00 $134.00 Buy

Lovehoney Sqweel 2 Oral Sex Simulator 

The Sqweel 2 has had an upward battle in sex toy opinions, just based on the look of it. Many people claim that only someone who doesn't have a vulva could think these rotating "tongues" actually feel like oral sex. But, not everyone feels that way. Some people enjoy the sensation of Sqweel's silicone tongues "licking" them, even if it's not a perfect imitation of oral. So, there's no harm in giving it a try if you're intrigued.
Lovehoney Sqweel 2 Oral Sex Simulator$39.99 Buy

NewMaxer Licking Toy Clitoral Stimulator 

While it's difficult to really mimic the feel of a tongue (you know, one that your partner can move around in different patterns and speeds), many toys do a decent job with the help of soft silicone. This one, the NewMaxer Licking Toy, uses one larger "tongue" in the center for clitoral stimulation and several small silicone feelers around it to tease the rest of your vulva.
NewMaxer NewMaxer Licking Toy Clitoral Stimulator$16.89 Buy

TENGA Onacup 

Tenga's Onacup is one of many oral sex toys made for people with penises in mind. The company describes this toy as "a vacuum-fired deep throat blow-job you can keep on your bedside table." Who wouldn't want that?
Tenga TENGA Standard Edition Deep Throat Onacup$16.99 Buy

Fun Zone Vulcan Vibrating Ripe Mouth Male Masturbator 

There are lots of options when you're looking for fleshlights, the sex toys that are made for people to stick their penises inside. And some of them are more realistic than others. This toy, for example, looks like you're really putting your penis inside someone's mouth.
You 2 Toys Fun Zone Vulcan Vibrating Ripe Mouth Male Masturbator$24.99 Buy
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