Celebrate National Sex Toy Day With R29 Readers’ 15 Most-Wanted Vibrators

Sex toys always have us a-buzz. From a little extra pleasure with your S.O. to a full-stop solo show, there's a toy for your every mood. And no one knows that better than our loyal readers. Today, November 4, is our favorite holiday of the year: National Sex Toy Day. To make your celebration even better, using our anonymous shopping data, we've compiled a list of the 15 most-loved, most-bought vibrators from the year so far — and they're good. So whether you want to ring in this auspicious day with a beginner-friendly toy, you're in the mood for one that'll make you black out from pleasure, or you're looking for an early holiday sale, R29 readers are already shopping all of it. Not sure where to start? Keep scrolling to read testimonials from some very satisfied customers on these 15 reader-favorite toys.
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R29 readers can't stop buying this luxury clitoral sucker from Lelo, which is no surprise. Laurie Mintz, PhD, a certified sex therapist, explains that with the toy's suction and sonic technologies, it's able to target both the external and internal clitoris, giving you full-body, earth-shattering orgasms.

Rating: 4.6 out of 5 stars with 2,145 reviews.

Reviewers say: "I have had vibrators in the past, but this one is far superior to all others. It has completely changed my understanding of my orgasms and [the] different ways I can make them happen. This is also the first vibrator that has helped me have multiple orgasms. It is just the best." —OB22, Lelo Reviewer.
This upgraded 2.0 version of Tracy's Dog OG sucking vibrator (which went viral in the summer) has become a staple in readers' carts since our sex writer reviewed it earlier this month. The blended orgasm created from the simultaneous clitoral suction and G-spot stimulation caused her to black out from pleasure, not once but twice. And by using reader-exclusive code R2915, you'll get an extra 15% off this best-seller.

Rating: 4.9 out of 5 stars and 237 reviews

Reviewers say: "It's O-mazing and I'm not exaggerating. This is my 2nd one, my dog found the first and chewed it up. I was so sad! I ordered a new one and it's even better than the first! Almost instant orgasm that can last several minutes. I haven't timed it yet, it lasts until I can't stand it anymore if that tells you anything!" —Lisa, Tracy's Dog Reviewer
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Oral sex toys have skyrocketed into popularity this year with this simulator from Lelo. According to pleased shoppers, with a small touch of lube, the toy's small, rotating beads inside soft silicone feel as close to the real thing as you can get.
Rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars with 291 reviews
Reviewers say: "Okay, I never need to purchase another personal care item again. This little baby is MAGIC! Five stars, ten hearts...can't recommend this highly enough." —Leelee, Lelo Reviewer.

Lelo Sila, $189

Another Lelo oral sex toy in readers' carts this year is the Sila. With its wide mouth, it's able to cover a wider expanse of your clit's surface for a deeper orgasm that builds low and slow to an explosive finish (without overstimulation!). Plus, this particular model uses Cruise Control technology that gets you there without you having to think about changing up intensities.

Rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars and 93 reviews

Reviewers say: "I happen to have been born a very uncooperative clitoris. It tends to retreat and hide when stimulated. This device is a game-changer! I'm 65 years old and post-menopausal meaning decreased blood flow in my entire vaginal area and clitoris. One of the non-hormonal options that my doctor mentioned was a device such as the Silo Cruise. I'm happy to announce a toe-curling orgasm on my first try and the conviction that I'm on my way to revitalizing our sex life with my brand-new husband! Thank you so very much!" —Rosie, Lelo Reviewer
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This clitoral hall-of-famer is on top of our most popular products every single week without fail. R29 readers and Amazon shoppers alike cannot get enough of this air-pulse stimulator, which uses a combination of 11 intense pressure-wave vibrations for a suction-pulse sensation that is perfect for you. Plus, it's completely waterproof and whisper quiet.
Rating: 4.3 out of 5 stars and 58,134 reviews.
Reviewers say: "Buy it!!!! I take medication for depression which leaves my sex drive completely depleted with no orgasm in sight if I tried. After 10 minutes with this toy, I am ready for back-to-back orgasms! You will not regret it. I promise." —Daphne, Amazon Reviewer.
After the discontinuation of a former sex toy MVP (RIP, Blowfish), this tongue-extending clit licker has risen to take its place. Small and easy to hold, this discreet vibrator buzzes and licks simultaneously for a sensation that can't be replicated by anything else.

Rating: 4.1 out of 5 stars and 1,739 reviews

Reviewers say: "A great add to a sexual stimulation toy collection. It is amazing how far this product category has come. This option is quite lifelike on low, and then some. Great fabrication, materials, even the color is great. Easy to clean. Easy to hold. A must have ladies. Whether you are flying solo or having fun w your partner, this will enhance your experience." —Donna, Amazon Reviewer
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Another tongue-extending toy R29 readers have been shopping is this 10-speed vibrator from CalExotics. The brand is known for its reasonably priced, sturdy toys, and this clitoral stimulator is no exception. In addition to the pleasure it delivers, it also donates part of its proceeds to a breast cancer foundation, so you can feel extra good about the purchase.

Rating: 3.4 out of 5 stars and 128 reviews

Reviewers say: "Holy clit, batman! I bought this from my local sex store and ran here to leave a review... If you have the house to yourself for a few hours this thing will get the job done..over and over..and over. And fast.
I'm 26 and never experimented with my clitoris much until my friend told me about this toy. It is powerful. It is kind. It is beautiful." —Brittany, Amazon Reviewer
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If accessibility and ease — without compromising power and pleasure — is your top concern, then Dame's Pom is the toy for you. Made from super-soft, comfortable silicone, which muffles the sound of its ultra-powerful five-speed motor, the toy fits neatly into the palm of your hand and contours to all the nooks and crannies you didn't even know you had. Plus, it's waterproof and rechargeable.
Rating: 4.7 out of 5 stars with 1039 reviews.
Reviewers say: "I love the feeling of the silicone, it's smooth and soft and feels great against my body. I think the variety of sensations, speeds, and vibrations is great and suits my needs perfectly. The quality seems great for the price, so far. It's a pretty basic vibe, but the shape fits nicely against me and I prefer these shapes to bullet vibes so it hits the spot for me. I'd definitely recommend [it] for anyone who likes a flatter clitoral vibe." —Elizabeth, Dame Reviewer.
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This one-and-done vibrator from Maude is perfect for a sex toy beginner who doesn't need complex shapes, features, or vibration patterns. The vibe, with its simple oblong shape that runs at three speeds, can be used internally or externally, depending on your comfort level, and it looks like a chic piece of art, easily left out on your nightstand.

Rating: 5 out of 5 stars and 1094 reviews
Reviewers say: "I did a lot of research when I decided to finally treat myself to a toy, and fell in love with the simplicity and affordability of vibe. Gets the job done without any fancy bells and whistles. No regrets!!!" —Amanda, Maude Reviewer
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One reviewer called this ergonomic clitoral stimulator a "marathon runner," with its long, slow buildup to full-body orgasm. It works by using a tapping vibration that's meant to simulate the feeling of fingers, and because of its real-feel sensation, it's perfect for someone who is new to sex toys (or maybe intimidated by them!).

Rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars and 29 reviews

Reviewers say: "After about 30 leisurely minutes, I had one of the longest orgasms I've ever experienced. Because of the consistent tap, tap, tapping, I was able to ride out my extended high without overstimulation. Just sheer pleasure. " —Charlotte, R29 Sex & Wellness Writer
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We-Vibe Touch, $99 $69

This best-selling clitoral stimulator has been topping the R29 charts for years, and it doesn't seem to be going anywhere soon. Small, quiet, and easy to hold, this eight-speed vibrator packs a powerful punch from such an unassuming shape.

Rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars and 7 reviews

Reviewers say: "I decided to buy the Touch, because I wanted something small. What I like: It doesn't even look like a toy. So I can leave it in the bathroom or in my bag, no one notices. Also: I've always had a hard time orgasming but the wonder and magic this product works on you that won't be an issue!" —We-Vibe Reviewer
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Best Womanizer Vibrators

R29 readers showed their love for Womanizer suction vibrators this season in a big way. The brand, which pioneered suction toys, has perfected it in the Premium 2 with 14 whisper-quiet (but somehow still incredibly powerful) sucking intensities that get the job done every time. Plus, Womanizer now offers a five-year warranty, so you don't have to worry about it burning out on you.

Rating: 4.1 out of 5 stars and 54 reviews

Reviewers say: "This one is powerful. I need the extra stimulation because my meds desensitize me. I love how this was worth every penny getting a clit orgasm. It holds a charge well too, so a long play time with multiple orgasms." —Lovehoney Reviewer
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If the Premium 2 is too much of a financial commitment, this more affordable, smaller model from Womanizer hits all the same notes on your clit with a less-hefty price tag. Though it only uses four intensities, 10 less than the Premium, its powerful suction has kept it a best-seller for months.

Rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars and 768 reviews

Reviewers say: "Wow, what can I say. To start off with this one [wasn't] even a toy I’d been looking for but hot given as a present by my husband. When I first looked at it I thought it was too small to be any good but once we got it into position boy did it do the job quickly. This is 100% my go to toy when I’m home alone and want to get off quickly and as an added bonus, recently discovered it’s great on the nipples as well." —Claire, Lovehoney Reviewer
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Best G-Spot Vibrators

Nothing gets R29 readers' hearts racing faster than the threat of a beloved toy selling out, which is why when this G-spot vibrator returned to stock this fall, everyone ran to grab it. Though the versatile curved toy with an additional clit-stimulating ridge has stayed in stock, its popularity hasn't gone anywhere.

Rating: 4.7 out of 5 stars and 612 reviews

Reviewers say: "Very high quality with a nice weight to it. Perfect length and curve placement to the arc. Fun alone or with a partner’s assistance. I’ve had quite a few g spot vibrators and this one is in the top tier." —Erika, Dame Reviewer
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Best Sexy Advent Calendar

Given how quickly last year's Lovehoney Sex Toy Advent Calendar sold out, it's no wonder that R29 readers rushed to purchase the 2022 version as soon as it hit the shelves. With over $450 worth of sexy goodies, including a $99 Womanizer suction vibrator, BDSM accessories, bullet vibrators, anal plugs, and so much more, it's a veritable wealth of pleasure waiting to be unboxed. Definitely be sure to buy this one quickly, though, if you're still waiting to grab it. It will be gone before you know it!

Rating: 4.9 out of 5 stars and 27 reviews

Reviewers say: "I bought this for myself and my partner, we were far too impatient and opened everything in one night! A brilliant deal and have been able to try toys we might not have considered to buy separately. Well worth it, and we are both very happy with the purchase!" —Lovehoney Reviewer
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