So, you're thinking about buying your first vibrator. Does this scenario sound familiar? You load up the first sex toy site that comes into your internet search and start browsing. Your eyes start to widen as you take in the intimidating-looking gadgets that look more like complicated torture devices than anything you want to put near your vagina. What's the difference between a clitoral stimulator and clitoral sucker? Do you want your G-spot activated? Do you want anything activated?
Stop panic scrolling, take a deep breath, and listen up. Buying your first sex toy should be fun and exciting! Taking the first steps to learn your own body via sexual pleasure is a milestone, and it should be celebrated, not tinged with dread. But the world of sex toys can be intimidating to say the least. With so many categories of toys, it's hard to figure out what is actually best for someone who's stepping their toe in the self-pleasure pool for the first time.
If you're new to masturbation, it's possible you haven't inserted anything into your vagina yet (or for a while), so external-use toys are the safest bet. Plus, clitoral stimulation is the easiest way to achieve an orgasm for most vagina-possessing people. That's why I've compiled the best user-friendly, totally approachable (not scary-looking!) vibrators for beginners, focused on wands, bullets, suction vibrators and other clit-centric vibes. Because it's time to stop being overwhelmed and get right to the pleasure part of self-pleasure. Keep reading to learn about the seven best sex toys for beginners, so you can make your first sex toy purchase with confidence.
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