8 Ways To Have Incredible Sex When You’re Feeling Beyond Lazy

In my opinion, women can have it all — or whatever they want to have, at least: a career, babies, no babies, friendships, marriage, polyamory, girls-only orgies, whatever. The one catch? When your schedule involves a 6:30 a.m. streaming workout and concludes with 9 p.m. Zoom happy hour, finding the energy to have sex can seem harder than getting up without pressing the snooze button.

Feeling too tired or worn out or just plain lazy for vigorous, effortful sex isn’t simply for the over-scheduled. It can happen after a long day of binging Selling Sunset, too. It can occur after a big meal on a holiday and, of course, it can happen on National Lazy Day.
If you're just too tired for sex, period, then there's no reason to feel compelled to get it on. However, if you want to get laid, but for whatever reason you're feeling too exhausted to put much effort into it, we’ve got you covered. Here are eight tips to help you bone down and get off when staying put on the couch seems more appealing than anything that requires breaking a sweat.

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