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Shani Silver

This summer, the one thing I absolutely, positively cannot live without is... "A pair of open-toe booties. I can't get enough."

Next up on my Netflix... "Either The West Wing, The Wire, or Six Feet Under. Forever."

Latest guilty pleasure... "Ice Loves Coco. What?"

The one song I can listen to over and over...and over is... "'Blue Letter' by Fleetwood Mac. If you haven't had a Lindsey Buckingham phase, you have not lived."

Current food obsession... "I recently visited Montreal, and I'm fascinated by poutine. I've become a mad scientist trying to come up with a healthy version of it. Wish me luck."

The latest trick I've picked up from the other R29 editors is..."I'm really into our DIY everything. The pinata is up next!"

My must-have cheap thrill... "Blouses from the Salvation Army. I may have a problem."

All Breakups Are For The Best, Even This One

Relationship Advice

Is Dating This Unromantic For Everyone, Or Just Me?

Relationship Advice

7 Perfect Movies For A Single Girl Summer

Why Should Single Women “Settle Down”?

Around the world, around the worldAround the world, around the world-Daft Punk, Around The World, 1997 I live with words. They’re my passion, my liveliho

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Can We Stop Using Single People For Entertainment?

“The Queen commands a comedy, Will.” – Shakespeare In Love, 1998 Somewhere in between Zooming my friends and getting the most out of my KitchenAi

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Sally Settles By The Seashore

Every Single Day’s first foray into fiction. Meet Sally. Sally wants to live in a little house by the sea. She wants a house and a husband and a do

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Coronavirus & Single Scaries: I Just Want A Husband Right Now

“So fuck you / And your untouchable face / Fuck you / For existing in the first place.” – Untouchable Face, Ani DiFranco, 1996 So, I’m fine. Hi

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Why Single Women Feel Guilty For Not “Doing” Enough

“I’ll never ask for too much / Just all that you are / And everything that you do.” – Whitney Houston, “I Have Nothing,” 1993 I come fr

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In Celebration Of Being The Third Wheel

“But I’m a creep, I’m a weirdo / What the hell am I doing here? / I don’t belong here” – Creep, Radiohead, 1992 You know

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I’m Not Having Sex Until I Love You

“All the good things, and the bad things, that may be.” – Salt-N-Pepa, Let’s Talk About Sex, 1990 I don’t write about sex. First of all becau

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Valentine’s Day Ideas For Cynics & Singles

“Hello, you’ve reached the winter of our discontent.” – Ethan Hawke as Troy Dyer, Reality Bites, 1994 Are we still doing Valentine’s

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Paranoid Precautions I Take As A Single Woman

“I am not afraid, I can hardly wait.” – Spin The Bottle, Juliana Hatfield, 1994 I’ll start by saying that I’m a lunatic. I don’t want you u

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I Deleted All My Dating Apps One Year Ago

“ I just want to tell you that I’ve had enough.” NSYNC, Bye Bye Bye, 2000 One year ago this month, I deleted all of my dating apps. No fanfare, no ch

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These New Year’s Resolutions Are For Single Women Only

“Okay, you’re still as hard as nails.” – Harry Burns, When Harry Met Sally, 1989 The only way to approach New Year’s resolutions is with no s

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Am I Single Because Of My Attitude?

“Now Debra, don’t be bitter, surely with your ever-growing collection of flesh mutilating silver appendages, and your brand new neo-nazi boot camp

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Relationship Advice

If You’re Single, Don’t Be Sad During The Holidays

We’re not doing this anymore. Not on my watch. This year, we won’t be sad from now until January 2 just because we’re single. Because that’s, in ol

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I’ve Been Single For So Long I’m Afraid I Don’t...

“Whatever, I’m driving.” – Katarina Stratford, 10 Things I Hate About You, 1999 Anyone who’s ever bought a power tool knows the special joy t

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Am I Single Because Of How I Look?

“You’re on my fax.” – Pretty Woman, 1990 I don’t think about my appearance much. That’s a lie, I definitely think about it, but not as it r

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Famous Single Women I Want To Be When I Grow Up

“Charlotte, we’re Jewish.” – Cher as Rachel Flax, Mermaids, 1990 The best thing about heroes is that they’re extremely personal. I don’t ha

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I Know I Won’t Be Single Forever (And Neither Will You)

“If we hate the same people and you get your suit cleaned, it’s a match.” – Barbara Streisand as Fanny Brice, Funny Lady, 1975 A year is bo

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Am I Single Because I’m Old?

“And I thought I’d live forever / But now I’m not so sureYou try to tell me that I’m clever / But that won’t take me anyhowOr any

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Is It Possible To Be “Good” At Dating?

“I might play ball. But I will never sign that.” – Randall “Pink” Floyd, Dazed and Confused, 1993 There’s a strong possibility that I

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Why Single Women Don’t Have To Be Nice About Being Single

“You burden me with your questions / You’d have me tell no lies / You’re always asking what it’s all about, / Darlin’ l

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Moving Is The Hardest Thing I’ve Done While Single

“There's somethin' wrong, we can't stay still” – Move Bitch, Ludacris, 2001 I once wrote about my rather potent desire to be boyfr

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How I Deal With Jealousy As A Single Woman

“'Cause all I really want is to be with you, feeling like I matter too.” Hey Jealousy, Gin Blossoms, 1992 I blame Instagram. It’s probably the w

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Single & Child-Free: Who’s Going To Take Care Of Me When...

“For-Ev-Er.” – The Sandlot, 1993 I have many feelings, or intuitions, if you like to call them that or live in Los Angeles. I’m pretty sure I?

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A Single Girl’s Guide To Her Friends Getting Boyfriends <...

“People try to say I act a little funny, But that's just a figure of speech to me.”-TLC, “What About Your Friends,” 1992 I wish being single w

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Relationships
The Shame Of Being A Single Woman
“Sunny Day / Sweepin' the clouds away / On my way to where the air is sweet” – Sesame Street Walking home from dinner with a friend recently
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Relationships
Why I'm Done Celebrating The Accomplishments Of Couples
“What is real? How do you define real?” – Morpheus, The Matrix, 1999 I’ve had the “summer of six weddings.” The “spring of seven baby sho
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Wellness
If You’re Single, It’s Okay To Be Scared Of Solo Travel
“We are the weirdos, mister.” The Craft, 1996 So… fear. For me, fear has always been an order to retreat, to make for safer ground and stay there. It
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