Valentine's Day Sex Toys For Partner Or Solo 2021

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Valentine’s Day is coming — don’t you want to make sure you’re coming, too? Whether single or boo'd up, a sex toy will last you longer than V-Day's usual bouquet or chocolate box. In other words: roses die, truffles get eaten, but you can always re-charge your favourite vibrator. And, we wrangled up 16 such orgasmic gift-worthy gadgets just for the February 14 occasion. Plus, all the best sex toy sales to save you £££ (we all know how spenny sex toys can be).

If you don't know where to start, here are some hot-shopping tips. For those with a partner, you might consider a couple’s sex toy that you can use jointly during foreplay or try treating yourself to a favourite for-one style turned into a present for two. If you know you love wand vibes, for example, buy one and ask your partner if they'd be up for using it on you or watching you use it on yourself. For singles, February 14 is the perfect time to embrace solo sex by trying out a new kind of toy (like a rabbit or a glass dildo) or levelling up with the fancier version of your favourite style (like a silicone bullet vibe instead of the cheaper plastic one). When it comes to self-love, the sky's the limit.

Whatever your Valentine’s Day situation, we’ve got a sex toy suggestion lined up for you or any boo ahead.

At Refinery29, we’re here to help you navigate this overwhelming world of stuff. All of our market picks are independently selected and curated by the editorial team. All product details reflect the price and availability at the time of publication. If you buy something we link to on our site, Refinery29 may earn commission.

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