The Apps To Download If You Want To Have A Threesome

Photographed by Michael Beckert.
Regardless of your relationship status, deciding that you want to have a threesome can feel like a big step — especially if you don't have a couple or third person in mind right off the bat. Luckily, you don't have to search blindly for others who share your interest. As is the case with just about everything in 2018, there's an app for that.
More accurately, there are quite a few apps that will help you meet potential partners for a threesome. Here, we've rounded up some of the best. Once you find the right person, make sure to spend some time getting to know them and their boundaries and desires. No matter what pop culture may suggest, a lot goes into having a fun and satisfying threesome, so you should be prepared for that once you meet the perfect third (and/or second) person.
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Click through to find the app that will help you set up the threesome of your dreams.
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Feeld

Consider Feeld the artsy friend of the threesome app world. Not only are its aesthetics suitably hip and its mission statement firmly grounded in inclusivity, it also supports a literary journal on sex and erotica called Mal. Users can join as singles or couples, browse privately, and even anonymously invite their crushes to join.
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3Somer

This app is super to easy use, whether you're a couple seeking a third person, a swinger seeking a partner for yourself or your spouse, or a single looking to meet couples. Plus, you can meet other users by reaching out to them directly or by following the app's recommendations of users in your area.
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Reddit

Yes, the same app that you use to browse adorable animal photos and watch videos of people fatally embarrassing themselves can help you find people looking to have a threesome. Start by subscribing to its personals subreddit, its very NSFW "dirty" personals subreddit, or /r/Swingers, then get to posting.
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Tinder

This ubiquitous dating app isn't just for singles seeking other singles. It's more common than you think for couples to swipe left and right as a unit, and besides — if people can use Tinder to find someone who will see A Star Is Born with them, you can use Tinder to set up a threesome.
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Fantasy

Users can browse and match with others based on their interests, lifestyles, or, yes, fantasies. Aside from the features that allow you to, you know, meet others interested in threesomes, what really sets this app apart is its storytelling section, in which you can share your experiences publicly, anonymously, or privately.
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