13 Sex Pillows That Will Take Your Pleasure To The Next Level

A common piece of advice we hear when looking into tactics for deeper penetration is to elevate our hips. Sure, this can be accomplished with a regular pillow — but why settle? No matter how satisfying your sex life is, few people would turn down some extra help. And sex pillows are just that: A little something something specifically designed to give you the lift you need to maximize your pleasure.

Thankfully, the world has realized that sex pillows have so much more to offer than lower-back support. By playing with shapes, texture, and technology, you get more, um, bang for your buck.


"The main thing it changes is the way positions feel," says Chelsea McCain of porn retailer AdultEmpire. "Doggy style will have a deeper penetration. Missionary will be a little less bland when you feel your G-spot or P-spot being hit. Oral will be effortless without neck pains when your partner's body is raised up and at a perfect level for you to work your magic."

Ahead of Valentine's Day, we rounded up a whole range of options. If you want a convenient lift, leverage to accomplish more positions, a full-on sex machine that you can use solo, or simply some easy-to-wash pillowcases for going old school, there's a sex pillow for you. Sit back (on a pillow), relax, and enjoy.

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Liberator Jaz

Liberator is one of the go-to brands for sex furniture, beloved for their accessible and effective designs. The "Jaz" pillow provides extra heigh for deeper stimulation, is created with a moisture-proof lining, and measures in at 13-inches long.
Liberator Jaz Liberator Jaz, $70.00 Buy

Adam & Eve Inflatable Position Pillow

The addition of handles to your sex pillows allows for previously hard-to-obtain leverage. This gives the user more control for harder, faster positions.
Adam and Eve Inflatable Position Pillow, $29.95 Buy

Liberator Heart-Shaped Sex Position Cushion

You don't need it to be Valentine's Day to invest in this velvety, heart-shaped sex cushion that'll assist with incline and deeper penetration.
Liberator Liberator Heart-Shaped Sex Position Wedge, $99.99 Buy

Liberator Flip Ramp

Unfold this position aid and use it as a supportive ramp or keep it closed for comfier from-behind sex. And yes, in a pinch it can double as an ottoman.
Liberator Flip Ramp, $200.00 Buy

Dame Products Pillo

If you're looking for a sex pillow that doesn't, you know, scream "this is a sex pillow," look no further: Dame Products' versatile wedge cushion features a rounded shape that allows you to find the perfect angle, but also doubles as a great lower back support for sitting in bed with a great book.
Dame Products Pillo, $95.00 Buy

Liberator Hipster

The curvier shape of this pillow, with both high and low lifts, encourages unlimited position possibilities. User reviews describe it as "your new best friend" for G-spot stimulation.
Liberator Hipster, $190.00 Buy

Liberator Wedge

If you're new to the world of sex pillows, this is a good place to start – for one, it's a straightforward wedge. Let this classic Liberator brand pillow help you with support during more daring positions, and gain deeper penetration.
Liberator Liberator Wedge, $125.00 Buy

DeluxeComfort Lovers Cushion

Made with the missionary position in mind (but versatile enough to use in other positions, too), this ergonomically grooved pillow delivers straightforward hip and tailbone support.
Deluxe Comfort Lovers Cushion, $45.24 Buy

Liberator BonBon

Where some pillows help enhance sex with your partner, this pick is ideal for solo play. Mount your favorite vibrator or dildo to it and enjoy the ride. It's firm enough to support you, hands-free.
Liberator BonBon Toy Mount, $109.99 Buy

Fetish Fantasy Series Inflatable Position Master

The juxtaposition of heavy metal cuffs with a soft velvet pillow will drive your senses wild. Use the pillow to achieve new angles and the cuffs to keep your partner in place — if you and your partner are both into that.
Pipedream Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Series Inflatable Position Mas, $40.00 Buy

Dulexo Sex Toys Wedge Pillow Position Cushion

In the words of one Amazon reviewer, it's not a sex pillow; it's a "quality time' enhancement wedge." And at under $20, there's no reason to not give it a go during your next romp in the sheets.
Dulexo Sex Toys Wedge Pillow Position Cushion, $14.99 Buy

Liberator Ramp & Wedge Combo

The ramp! The wedge! The endless combinations for new (well-supported) sex positions! The Liberator Ramp & Wedge Combo can give you deeper penal penetration, be a great booster for oral sex, and let you recline on your back in comfort.
Liberator Liberator Ramp & Wedge Combo, $235.00 Buy

Liberator Ramp

If you're looking for a more intense slope, this ramp can achieve even deeper positions and make up for more extreme height differences between partners.
Liberator Liberator Ramp, $195.00 Buy

Liberator Humphrey Toy Mount Sex Pillow

This oversized, rectangular cushion has all the benefits of a cozy body pillow with the benefits of a sex pillow made for solo action. Attach your vibrator or dildo into the sex toy mount and enjoy some hands-free fun.
Liberator Humphrey Toy Mount Sex Pillow, $159.99 Buy

Liberator Talea Spreader Bar

With two pairs of restraints, this position aid is as versatile as they come. Cuff your wrists and set the bar under your hips for added support, cuff your ankles during doggy style to keep your legs spread, or try those positions out with your partner in the cuffs. (Just make sure everyone involved has enthusiastically consented.)
Liberator Liberator Talea Spreader Bar, $145.00 Buy
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