Cheri Travis, Licensed Professional Counselor
This is a frustrating issue for sure, but fixable! There’s a reason it’s said that the brain is the most important sex organ: It is truly the center of all the action, for both men and women. I commend you for seeking a solution and wanting to take your sex life to the next level. The benefits of a satisfying sex life are well documented: endorphin release, increased levels of intimacy, and satisfaction in relationships — woohoo! So, where to start?
Old message: [MAJOR Orgasm Blocker]: “I do not deserve to enjoy this.”
New message: “I will not fight something that feels good and natural.”
Old message: “I can’t let go. It’s not safe.”
New message: “I chose to share my body with this person because s/he makes me feel appreciated and sexy.”