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These Sex Toys Are Life-Changing For People In Long-Distance Relationships

When you're in a long-distance relationship or have found yourself apart from your significant other due to good social distancing practices, you may be trying to figure out small ways to feel like you're actually with your partner IRL. This may mean scheduling elaborate FaceTime or Skype "dates," trying to binge-watch the same shows together, planning visits, and of course, plenty of self-love sessions to help release anxiety and stress during these uncertain times.

Because technology is ever-evolving, there are tons of sex toys that are pretty much made for people in LDRs, because they can be controlled through a smartphone app from miles away. Although you and your partner may not physically be together, with these toys and an active imagination, you can pretend.


Whether your partner is on the other side of town or living across the country, we found the best app-connected sex toys that will help keep you satisfied until you can actually be together again.

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OhMiBod Fuse Interactive

This high-tech take on the rabbit vibe can be paired with other devices via the FeelMe app to share a hot-and-heavy experience with your partner no matter where each party is.
OhMiBod Fuse Interactive, $149.00 Buy
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Zalo Queen Warming G-Spot Vibrator & Suction Sleeve

The best way to have your hands full. The Zalo Queen vibrator set's primary shaft has warming technology and 64 different combos to hit your G-Spot (again, and again) with the added bonus of a suctioned sleeve. Use the Zalo Remote app to pleasure your partner anywhere in the world.
Zalo Queen App Controlled Warming G-Spot Vibrator with Sucti, $149.99 Buy
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OhMiBod Esca 2 Couples Vibrator

Orgasm via your partner's Apple Watch! This vibrator is great for both solo and remote partner play that pays special attention to the G-Spot. Turn on manually or in Bluetooth mode with the OhMiBod Remote App. There's 1.5 hours charge time for a max of 3-hours of play, and compatibility with water-based lubes.
OhMiBod OhMiBod Esca 2 Couples Vibrator, $119.00 Buy
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We-Vibe Chorus

This waterproof vibrator comes with a remote control so you or your partner can operate it while you're in the same vicinity. But there's also a smartphone app for long-distance use, which allows you to operate the vibrator in real-time.
We-Vibe Chorus Couples Massager, $219.00 Buy
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Je Joue Dua G-Spot Vibrator

This app-enabled G-spot and clitoral vibe allows you (or your partner) to create a custom session of slowed-down or sped-up pleasure sensations that you can save (and repeat) whenever you want.
Je Joue Dua G-Spot Vibrator, $171.00 Buy
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Ohmibod Lovelife Rev Finger Vibrator

This waterproof finger vibrator was designed with special care to accessibility. The single, large button makes for easy control of its five different pulse modes. At 2.4 inches in length and 2.5 in width, it's also a great on-the-go-toy. It's fully App control enabled, so great for both solo and distanced partner play.
OhMiBod Ohmibod Lovelife Rev Finger Vibrator, $69.00 Buy
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Kiiroo Pearl 2 Interactive Vibrator

This extra smooth, totally waterproof vibrator is proud to enable what it calls "Teledildonics – Internet-connected sex via high-tech toys" with its FeelMe technology. Not only does the Pearl 2 respond to other devices, but it transmits to them as well. It's motion touch sensitive, and useable on a remote level through the FeelMe app.
Kiiroo Kiiroo Pearl 2 Interactive Vibrator, $109.99 Buy
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Svakom Ella Love Egg Vibrator

This cheeky little egg has 11 different vibration modes, is waterproof, and is super-quiet. It's controlled by an app, so your SO can tease you from afar.
Svakom App Controlled Textured Love Egg Vibrator, $109.99 Buy
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Mystery Vibe Crescendo

This top-selling, bendy vibe is super versatile, making it perfect for ~experimentation~ while you're cooped up at home. Pair it with the free Mystery Vibe app (and fire up the FaceTime) so you can enjoy it with your partner in the driver's seat.
Mystery Vibe Crescendo The Bendable Smart Vibrator, $149.99 $112.49 Buy
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Vibease Bluetooth Erotica Rechargeable Responsive Panty Vibrator

Avid literotica readers will appreciate this vibrator, which strategically syncs its vibrations with an erotic audiobook. You and your partner can both get one, and swap suggestions for what to listen to next. It's like a book club, but different.
Unbranded Vibease Bluetooth Erotica Rechargeable Responsive Panty Vibrator, $124.99 Buy
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We-Vibe Ditto

A little bit of remote controlled anal play comes courtesy of the We-Vibe Ditto, which has a tapered tip and rumbling motor to slip in easy and stimulate with power. It's both waterproof and compatible with water-based lubes, and able to be used from a distance with the We-Connect app.  
We-Vibe We-Vibe Ditto, $129.00 Buy
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Lovense Hush

If you and your partner have a shared sex playlist going, you'll appreciate this butt plug, which will vibrate in-time with music through the corresponding app.
Lovense Hush, $119.00 Buy
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We-Vibe Melt Clitoral Vibrator

If you're missing out on some good ol' fashioned oral from your partner, this clit stimulator is the next best thing. Pair it with We-Vibe's app to let your partner take the reins from near or far.
We-Vibe We-Vibe Melt Clitoral Stimulator, $139.00 Buy
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Lioness Smart Bluetooth Vibrator

Dreamed up by two UC Berkeley engineers, the Lioness' mission is to totally change how women get off. You and your partner can track your sessions on the app, and the tracking gets more accurate with regular use. This data keeps users up to speed on what conditions, positions, turn-ons, and motions help them reach orgasm.
Lioness Smart Bluetooth Vibrator, $229.00 Buy
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Ohmibod Club Vibe 2.Oh!

This top-selling vibrating panty can be set so that the vibrator works off of sound. The vibrations are keyed to the overall volume of the music, so next time you're on a call with your partner, choose the playlist and volume to get them going. And if you're a little closer to the receiving end of these vibes, you can use the mic in the remote control to set the vibe off too.
OhMiBod Club Vibe 2.Oh!, $89.95 Buy
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We-Vibe Wand Massager

If you're on the market for a hefty foot long vibrator, you're going to want it to be ergonomic. The We-Vibe is designed with your capacity for hand-cramping in mind, has 10 different functions, can be controlled from a distance with the We-Connect app.
We-Vibe We-Vibe Wand Massager, $179.00 Buy
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Lovense Domi 2 Mini Wand Vibrator

Thanks to this wand vibrator's smartphone app, you can control the vibration level from a long distance, and even sync it to your music if you'd like. At 10 inches long, it's definitely a bulkier vibrator, so keep that in mind if you're looking for something discreet.
Lovense Domi Mini Wand Vibrator, $119.00 Buy
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