Although I am proud of myself for being honest — and I respect him for being honest as well — I am devastated and very hurt. Furthermore, this guy has talked about his sexual "prowess," how many partners he's had, and how he has rarely used protection. So, I can only assume he has come into contact with herpes in the past — and he's afraid of MY vagina?? So, my question is, how do I go on from here? I feel like my sex life is over. I was really hopeful about this one; how do I know when it's the right moment to disclose? I'm too young to be sexless!
If you’re super into having your face ejaculated on, you really, really, really need to have this talk — because his reaction could be a sign of a major sexual incompatibility between the two of you. Even if you aren’t super into it, communication is very important in relationships, and there’s no time like the present to start building your ability to talk to each other about sex. If you’re finding it difficult to talk face-to-face, consider turning the lights off, texting, or emailing.
And, yes, it seems completely absurd to imagine that thousands of years' worth of humans managed to never ejaculate on each other’s faces until the invention of moving pictures.