What You’re Really Thinking Before You Make The First Move

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The perfect person is standing next to you, and you haven't kissed yet. It's going to happen...right? Like, that's the expected outcome of a great date. Don't worry. Your inner monologue is just having a moment. Instead of silently freaking out over who is going to lean in first, go forth and make the first move.

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