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Thanks for reading Can We Talk?, a sex and relationships column that aims to tackle the burning questions about sex, dating, relationships, and breakups th

Thanks for reading Can We Talk?, a sex and relationships column that aims to tackle the burning questions about sex, dating, relationships, and breakups th

I’ll try anything to quell my stress. Nine months into 2021, many of us feel that way — likely because, given the state of the world, more peo

I kicked off 2020 resolving to go on at least 20 dates, a so-called carrot on a stick that I hoped would force me out into the cruel, daunting dating world

In these stupendously surreal times, we could all use a little more healing energy in our lives, I say. And it seems that Lili Reinhart has had the same th

When I look back on my life so far, I’ve had my best sex in the summer. There’s just something about the constant sunshine, the lack of clothing, a

Let’s be real: No matter who you are, you have an opinion on the sex act 69. You might think it’s hot as hell. Or maybe it makes you feel vulnerabl

Steamy sex is usually a good thing. But during the summer months, when it’s already blazing outside, creating extra heat by getting busy can sound like a

In the latest season of The Bold Type, there’s an episode called “To Peg Or Not To Peg.” Spoiler alert: It in, Kat Edison participates in pegging for

In 2020, there are myriad ways to masturbate. There are toys that suck, whirr, and pulsate. There are shower heads, strap-ons, and even jewellery that doub

I reported the majority of this story while braless. In fact, I’ve been rejecting the tyranny of the bra more and more during my coronavirus self-qua

Earlier this year, astrologer Susan Miller publicly predicted 2020’s wedding season would be, in a word, doomed. Venus, the planet of love, goes retrogra

Outercourse. Heavy petting. Dry sex. Tribadism. Dry humping. No matter what you call it, the act of rubbing your vagina against your partner’s leg, k

On a recent Autumn day, I found myself sitting in a conference room, surrounded by five of my spirit guides. Historically, in Western spiritualism, a spiri