The Financial Cost
Sometimes Becca gets really upset and angry, saying 'I feel like I have fathered a child. But I am not a father, I'm a mother.'
'We have heard from a doctor that women do effectively get raped,' says Megan, 'because they're so vulnerable and desperate to have a child [that] these men manage to convince them that the only way is to conceive naturally, and then they do it. It's just sickening.'
The Emotional Cost
It's really traumatic but because you still want that baby you've got to get back on the saddle and try again. It feels like you don't even get time to grieve.