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So That's Why You Get So Horny During Your Period

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These Powerful Wand Vibrators Make Solo Sex Even More Fun

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What’s The Difference Between Polyamory & An Open Relationship?

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Dating Apps Queer Women & Non-Binary People Will Actually Want To...

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These 9 Sex Toys Mimic Oral Sex (Almost)

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9 (Orgasmically-Rated) Sex Toys You Can Buy On Amazon Prime Day

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True Love Stories From Real Couples

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8 Best Sex Toys Ever Invented

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A Complete Guide To All The LGBTQ+ Flags & What They Mean

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Is It Normal To Bleed After Being Fingered?

When my first girlfriend and I started having sex, I bled — a lot. It happened almost every time she fingered me. I’d go to the bathroom after we w

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Masturbation Tips All Women Should Know

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100% That Butch

Photos Of A Butch Woman That Challenge What Pregnancy ‘Shou...

At some point, Ari Fitz kind of forgot that she even has a womb. The YouTuber is a masculine, black, queer woman — and in embracing her masculinity and w

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12 Steamy and Free Erotic Literature Sites

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Relationship Advice

What It Really Means If You Dream About Cheating On Your Partner

When you’re single, sex dreams are kind of the best. Your unconscious mind gets to go on sexual adventures your awake self might never be brave enoug

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Guide To Orgasms

What's The Deal With Those Orgasm "Aftershocks"?

Most of the time after we finish having sex, my girlfriend and I cuddle in bed. But sometimes, as I lay my head on her shoulder and wrap my arm around her

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What It Means To Be Asexual, Bicurious — & Other Sexualities You ...

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You Can Have An Orgasm With Your Clothes On, Here’s How

Outercourse. Heavy petting. Dry sex. Tribadism. Dry humping. No matter what you call it, the act of rubbing your vagina against your partner’s leg, k

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How To Get Over Your Nerves & Finally Tell Your Crush You Like Them

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My Ex Was A Fat-Shaming Ninja & It Took Me Months To Catch On

There’s a campground that sits right in the center of the tri-state intersection between New York, Pennsylvania, and New Jersey that’s home to one of t

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24 Black LGBTQ+ Activists Who Changed The World

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54 Gender Identity Terms Every Ally Should Know

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How Did The Rainbow Become A Symbol Of Gay Pride?

I'll never forget the day my 60-something-year-old grandmother grabbed a rainbow belt from the shelf at Spencer's, wrapped it around her waist, a

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11 Queer Artists On Instagram To Follow Right Now

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Does Talking To My Ex Make Me A "Micro-Cheater"?

I have a bit of an unusual relationship with my ex. Not only are we best friends (and flatmates), but we make it a point to go out to dinner every year in

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9 Steamy Erotic Stories Hiding On Reddit

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Relationship Advice

How To Tell Your Partner That You’re Not Happy With Your Sex Life

Talking about sex is hard. Telling the person you love that you're not happy with your sex life is even harder. In fact, it might feel impossible to s

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Relationship Advice

The Case For & Against Hooking Up With An Old Boss

When you're a 20-something who hates online dating, it can feel like your only dating pool is work. After all, you spend more time at work than at hom

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Relationship Advice

If You've Cheated On Your Partner, Keep That Secret To Yourself

You've cheated. Maybe it was a one-night stand spurred on by too much alcohol and impaired decision-making. Maybe it was an on-going affair with a fri

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How Many Times Is Too Many Times To Break Up & Get Back Together?

I was sitting across from my friend Madelene* at our favourite pizza place a few months ago when she told me that she and her girlfriend, Katy*, had broken

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Relationship Advice

You Said "I Love You." They Didn't Respond. How To Stay Calm

Most people say “I love you” all the time — to their parents, their siblings, their friends, their dogs — but when it comes to saying those

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