Jennifer Gatti, Licensed Master Social Worker
I need to begin by saying there is no one set answer to this dilemma, especially if we are trying to focus on the ever-torturous question, "What the #%*! he thinking?" Or, even better, "Is he even attracted to me?" But, to entertain those gnawing questions, let's toss about some logical possibilities of what's going on with him and why he hasn't made his move yet.
Bea Arthur, Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Golden Girls enthusiast
It could be any one of those things, or even that he’s a virgin — men aren’t as simple about sex as they’d like us to believe. For most people, sex happens between the ears before it happens between the legs. So, if he’s preoccupied or distracted by something that’s keeping him from making the next move, you’re well within your right to just ask if he’s comfortable with your chemistry. But, you sound like a woman who knows what she wants, so what’s stopping you from making the next move? The next time you’re ready to rock, ask if he has any condoms and you’ll have your answer soon enough. You may not get the answer you want, but at least it's an answer and you won't be pulling your hair out trying to figure him out.