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Why The “F*ck It” Mentality Is Harming Friendships

The Vacation Is Over… And So Is Your Friendship

Please Don’t Come Back To Our Friendship After Your Relationship Ends

I’m 27 — Should I Start Telling My Dates That I Probably Don’t Wa...

I’ve never been that maternal when it comes to children. Maternal towards some friends perhaps, playing the “mum” role at university when drunken nig

by Tanyel Mustafa

Why Can’t We Meet Up Without Your Partner Coming Along?

There’s a study from several years ago that’s stayed in my head since I read it: Women and men lose two friends on average when they get into a relatio

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“Safe Settling” Could Be Holding You Back From A Fulfilling Job

If you reflect honestly on your past career moves, how motivated to job hunt were you when your job was unbearable, compared with the times you’ve been u

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You Should Delete These Words Off Your Résumé (And Use These Inst...

Whether you’re looking to switch career paths, find a better job, or break into the professional world after graduation, a carefully crafted, thoughtful

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8 Women On Their Most Worthy Investment Ever

Talking about money benefits all of us — and we need to do it more. Join the conversation with Worth More, our 2024 guide to better finances, from naviga

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Finding Out I’m Celiac Means Longing For The Foods I’ve Lost

When Kirsten Roberston, 27, found out she had celiac disease six years ago, she decided to indulge in one final gluten-loaded meal. “It was my last suppe

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Feeling Tired? Say No To Holiday Plans Like These Women Have

“It’s become a treat to myself to spend Christmas alone, having a couple of days completely to myself,” says Rachel, a 32-year-old nurse. It might so

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I’m Done Entertaining My Friends In Relationships With My Dating ...

I had barely set foot into my friend’s house party a few months back, when a woman asked: “So, tell me! Been on any fun dates recently?” She’s some

by Tanyel Mustafa

If You Ask Where I’m “Really From,” You Won’t Get A Second Date

I have what’s been described as a “very London” accent. I also have olive skin and dark features. Like some odd magic trick, the latter seems to make

by Tanyel Mustafa

So You Have A UTI. Here’s What To Do Next

So, you have a urinary tract infection. You’re not alone. UTIs account for almost 25% of all bacterial infections in women, and 50-60% will have at least

by Tanyel Mustafa