For trans and non-binary people, passing equals safety, but it can put serious mental strain on individuals
The race to accept an ideal simply puts increased pressure on trans people. This heightens gender dysphoria, mounts up to mental health issues, such as depression, and can increase risk of suicide.
The desire to pass sees some trans people risk their health for cheap, quick-fix surgeries
There's no need to judge if someone doesn't look as 'good' as you. That doesn't make them any less trans. Looks aren't everything.