A demisexual needs to have an emotional connection with someone before any sexual feelings can appear.
What does demisexual mean?
One-night stands have zero appeal for me, even when I’m gagging for it.
Can men be demisexual?
You are far more likely to make an emotional connection by having a good conversation at a dinner party, or hanging out with friends of friends in places where you can actually hear each other speak.
Patience is a demisexual's virtue
Demisexuals need emotional connections, give it a chance…
If having sex with someone you don’t fancy isn’t fun and doesn’t give you pleasure, why do it? Save yourself the spine shudders of thinking back on sex with people that give you 'the ick'.