How do you hold your own line? How do you even know what your line is? How do you feel entitled to your line?
The thing that I know now is that this is going to be something that I will struggle with for the rest of my life.
So many times my partner wants sex, and I don't, and I go through with it, and it feels icky, but I do it anyway, because they're my partner, and I feel like I should.