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Rebecca Adams

Queer Voices
How Going From A Woman To A Man Changed My Perspective (NSFW)
Rebecca Adams
13 Jun 2018
Relationship Advice
2017 Shut Down My Love Life, But Here's How I'm Turning It Around
Rebecca Adams
7 Dec 2017
Sex
Do We Owe Explanations To The People We Ghost?
Rebecca Adams
3 Dec 2017
Gender Nation
The Gender Identity Terms You Need To Know
Transgender and gender-non conforming people tell us what words like “gender queer,” “non-binary,” and “skoliosexual” m
by Rebecca Adams
Health Trends
11 Images That Only People With Anxiety Will Understand
by Rebecca Adams
Relationships
My "Not-Serious" Relationships Have Meant More To Me Than My "Ser...
A few months ago, I was on a date with a guy when he asked me the second-date question I hate the most: “When was your last serious relationship?” I to
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Relationships
Why I'm Happy I Haven't Met "The One" Yet
I turned 27 this past March, and it was a birthday of realisations. I realised that when someone suggests moving your birthday party to a warehouse concert
by Rebecca Adams
Relationships
I'm Sick Of Hearing That Love Will Come When I Stop Looking For It
I was lucky to grow up with two parents who pushed me and my brothers equally to achieve our goals in life. My father always told me that, in order to be s
by Rebecca Adams
Dating Advice
Why I'm Done Being Mysterious On Dates
I was recently rewatching old episodes of Sex and the City, cry-laughing at how poorly the show holds up in today’s modern dating culture (it’s bad, gu
by Rebecca Adams
Relationships
How I Got Back Into The Dating Game After A Long Hiatus
by Rebecca Adams
Relationship Advice
In Defence Of Arguing Over Text Message
“I have some things I want to discuss. Can we meet in person and chat?” For me, those are some of the scariest words that could ever flash across my iP
by Rebecca Adams
It's Not You
We Need To Change The Conversation Around Interracial Dating
As much as I love sharing my dating stories, there are a lot of experiences that I haven't had. That's why, as part of It’s Not You, I'll
by Rebecca Adams
It's Not You
First Dates Don’t Mean All That Much To Me — Here’s Why
Being one of the token single women in your friend group means that you become numb to certain conversations and situations. Last New Year’s Eve, it didn
by Rebecca Adams
Sex
I'm A Nightmare Ex-Girlfriend — & I'm Cool With That
There are certain things about myself that I’ve had to come to grips with when it comes to sex, dating, and relationships. I’m not a “cool girl;” w
by Rebecca Adams
Sex
The 4 Worst Dates I've Ever Been On
by Rebecca Adams
Sex
What It's Like To Date As A Muslim Woman
As much as I love sharing my dating stories, there are a lot of experiences that I haven't had. That's why, as part of It’s Not You, I'll
by Rebecca Adams
It's Not You
I Don't Believe That You'll "Just Know" When Someone Is The One
We’re in the midst of wedding season, which means everyone on your Instagram feed is getting hitched in overt fashion — ceremony hashtag included. Sinc
by Rebecca Adams
Sex
How I Keep From Being Cynical When Dating Totally Sucks
I used to never understand people who would wax poetic about the beginnings of relationships. They’d go on about how much they loved the newness of every
by Rebecca Adams
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Sex
How To Handle The Scary, Sad, No-Good Single Days
When you start writing about your romantic life, people tend to assume certain things about you. Over the weekend, a guy asked if I felt pressure to seek o
by Rebecca Adams
Sex
I'm No Longer Dating People Who Are "Relationship Material"
The first online dating profile I ever set up was on OkCupid when I was 21. I remember taking a lot of time on it — making sure to pick the exact words t
by Rebecca Adams
Sex
What I Learned From Dating Myself
I have a strong aversion to walking into places first. It’s true — if I’m out with family or friends, I’ll always try to be the first to the door,
by Rebecca Adams
Sex
The Postpartum Sex Issue We Need To Talk About
My Ob/Gyn has a great head of hair for a man his age, I remember thinking as I looked down between my legs, my feet in the stirrups at my six-week postpart
by Rebecca Adams
Sex
Think The Female Orgasm Is Elusive? Let These 6 Women Explain
by Rebecca Adams
Sex
What You Can Actually Learn From Being Single
There’s this weird thing that a lot of us do when we find ourselves at the end of a relationship. We’ll be out with friends, sifting through the rubble
by Rebecca Adams
Sex
Why I'll Never Apologise For Being "Intimidating" Again
A few weeks ago, I posted a survey to my Twitter, asking my followers what they wanted to see in this column. (It’s still live, so you can feel free to a
by Rebecca Adams
Sex
How Not "Defining The Relationship" Got Me Exactly What I Wanted
There are certain things in life I meander through: cooking dinner, long walks through Central Park, and paying my rent. But, for the most part, I rush eve
by Rebecca Adams
Sex
How I Realised I'm The Worst Kind Of Person To Date
The other night, I was scrolling through my text messages, trying to find my group chat with my friends, when I came across a message from a guy I’d met
by Rebecca Adams
Sex
Why Google Was Hazardous To My Dating Health
I’ve never been great at deciding things on my own. I blame it on the fact that I’m a Pisces — we fish tend to be more than a little wishy washy. And
by Rebecca Adams
Sex
I Completely Lost Myself Trying To Be “The Cool Girl”
From the time I was in elementary school, I was aware of the fact that there was a certain breed of woman that straight guys preferred: the Cool Girl. I ma
by Rebecca Adams
Sex
It's Time To Call "Ghosting" What It Really Is
Two days ago, I yelled at my computer after reading a series of articles across the web. In them, the writers describe the exact relationship I currently f
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