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8 Remote-Control Sex Toys For Long-Distance Lovers

Well, it looks like social-distancing is going to be our reality for the foreseeable future, which is making sex for anyone who doesn’t live together a fraught proposition. So it’s no surprise that there’s been a boon in interest in sex toys that partners can control from far, far away via an app on their phones.

When you’re shopping for these, keep in mind that just because something says it has a remote control doesn’t mean you can use it from across town. Classic remote-control sex toys (think vibrating panties) are mostly meant to be used in the same room or very nearby, so if you’re looking to up your video-conferencing game, be sure the toy specifies that it has Bluetooth.


So far, a few higher-end companies are dominating this game, which means these goodies tend to be on the pricier side, but it’s becoming increasingly fashionable to build Bluetooth-capability into newer toys, so check if some of your existing playthings already have this feature — it may be your lucky day! Here are some of the best Bluetooth-enabled toys on the market. (You can also use them all for solo play, too.)

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We-Vibe Vector Prostate Plug

Connect to this plug — which you insert just like a regular butt plug, but with the added bonus of vibration options — to further stimulate the prostate.
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LOVENSE Lush Bullet Vibrator

This seven-speed bullet vibe targets the G-spot and can last for up to two hours whether your partner is near or far.
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Kiiroo Pearl2 Fuse Couples Set

If your GF lives across the country, you can each take half of this couples’ kit and use the FeelConnect app to reach out and touch each other. The only question is: Who gets the G-spot toy and who gets the rabbit-style double fun? Decisions, decisions!

Price in USD.
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We-Vibe Moxie

If you’re trying to lend your weekly outings to the grocery store a little more oomph, give a partner Bluetooth access to this little panty pulser via the free We-Connect app. It has a cool magnet design so you can attach it to your undies and it won’t fall out of your pant leg in the produce aisle.
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Kiiroo Keon and Pearl2 Couple Set

Friendies, this is a special couples kit for penis/vag pairs that comes complete with lube and toy cleaner. Download the FeelConnect app and use it to make the magical device on the left stroke the peen for you (it’s sort of a combination of a fleshlight and a slutty robot). And Dr. Dick can operate this G-spot vibe — everyone wins!

Price in USD.
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PicoBong Remoji Diver Egg Vibe

Use the free Remoji app to work this sassy G-spot vibe from Lelo’s sister brand PicoBong.

Price in USD.
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We-Vibe Wand

Ride off into the sunset as your lovah controls this megavibe from afar. This waterproof and rechargeable toy comes with 10 different vibration modes.
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Svakom ELVA Vibrating Bullet Egg

This bestseller stimulates the clit and the G-spot and is reportedly so quiet, you can't hear it even a meter away. (Highly recommended for those with roommates.)
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