It will come as no surprise that I don’t have much in common with “Hot Girl” American rapper Megan Thee Stallion
. But, turns out, we are the same height, and at least once in our lives, have both felt we are “too nice”. Upon the release of her new album, Traumazine
, the 27-year-old claimed that, after years of mistreatment in the music industry, she was done with her nice reputation. “When you are nice for so long,” she told The Cut
, “and you don’t really ever give too much back talk and nobody’s ever seen you step out of character, they assume what your character is. They assume you’re not going to stand up. That’s when people start to try you.” Megan’s denouncement of niceness is understandable, given what she’s been through over the past few years, including allegedly being shot in the feet
by fellow musician Tory Lanez. I wouldn’t want to be nice either. Yet it’s a shame that niceness
is the first thing Black women feel we need to let go of in the pursuit of respect, safety and success.