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Everyone experiences pleasure differently, and understanding how that looks and feels can be empowering and exciting. Recently, a few folks were up to the challenge of conceptualizing their own sexualities; they put together drawings, photos, and other images of what they think their orgasms look like. Your dinner plate read
To define a lack, you have to start by identifying what should fill it; to talk about female anorgasmia, first you have to talk about orgasm. We tend to talk around it, giving it cute nicknames: "the big O," "the grand finale." Perhaps unsurprisingly, it has no single, universally accepted definition. It’s usually the read