Illustrated by Darcy Moore.It's okay to have a few glasses of wine before an online-dating session
The result? Rosenberg got really into the dirty talk. "I began to go off-script. I was finally getting the hang of this. Our conversations were raw. Graphic. Forbidden. Exciting," she writes.
You'll struggle with the feelings of what you're supposed to do versus what you want to do
Growing up, Rosenberg was taught to think that sex was dirty. "No longer would I be constricted by what I was supposed to think, supposed to do, supposed to feel," she writes of her liberation.
Watch porn
Rosenberg admits that, in addition to her views on casual sex, she wasn't too keen on porn: "I thought people who watched porn were either deviant, desperate, or both." Once she started watching, though, she couldn't help but love it. "Now, those judgments flew out the window. I was ready to stoop." She can't say enough about the way porn helps her orgasm.
Be spontaneous
As in, don't schedule sex. "You don’t say, 'We’re going to have sex on Monday.' No. He might come in from a golf match, all filthy dirty, and then all of a sudden you’re in bed, and you’re having a hell of a time!"