If one more aunt asked us if we were in a relationship at those summer weddings, we might have gotten uncharacteristically un-classy. Yes, that cocktail ring hurts as much as it looks like it would. To avoid semi-precious scratches on precious family members,we're vowing that fall is our time to shine, date-wise. The air is crisp, sweaters are coming out (and off...later), the leaves are popping: Autumn in the Big Apple couldn't be more romantic, which is why we're helping you kickstart your love life right with three sexy restaurants on-point for a first date or an amour amp-up with your current beau. And, our advice doesn't stop there. We've matched up each eatery with an outfit guaranteed to fit in and stand out. We've got a sexy Brooklyn oyster bar with an aphrodisiacal ensemble to match, a lunch spot where that pencil skirt's suddenly not so professional, and an Alphabet City spot that's sensual schloss. Auntie, you need a hook-up on a reservation?