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I’m A Big Fan Of Situationships — You Could Be Too
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Tanyel Mustafa
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The One Thing Missing From Your Sex Life? Bondage
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19 Feb 2024
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The 57 Most Erotic Books You Will Ever Read
Shannon Carlin
15 Feb 2024
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Erika W. Smith
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The 72 Steamiest, Sexiest Movies Of All Time
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Charlotte Lewis
Queer Voices
I Worry That I Will Never Get To Fall In Love, Because I’m ...
I went to confession at an art gallery recently (and no, there was no hot priest involved, à la Fleabag). Visitors to the gallery were asked to share thei
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How To Masturbate Without Sex Toys
There are myriad ways to masturbate. There are toys that suck, whirr, and pulsate. There are shower heads, strap-ons, and even jewellery that doubles as a
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Wellness
6 Signs You Just Had An Orgasm
You might have heard an orgasm described as a vaginal sneeze or called “la petite mort” — French for “the little death.” Others might describe or
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Erika W. Smith
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Charlotte Lewis
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29 Women Spill On How Many People They’ve Had Sex With
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Maggie Zhou
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Apparently This Suction Sex Toy Will Make You Climax In Under 3 M...
Whenever a brand claims its sex toy will have users climaxing in a certain number of minutes, I always raise an eyebrow. Everyone’s journey to orgasm is
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Lauren Cunningham
Can We Talk?
Am I Asexual Or Am I Afraid Of Intimacy?
Thanks for reading Can We Talk?, a sex and relationships column that aims to tackle the burning questions about sex, dating, relationships, and breakups
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How’s That For You? This Is What Sex Actually Feels Like
The first time I had sex, I was so fixated on the fact that I was finally, actually having sex that all I could think of to say was, “oh my god, we’re
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Erika W. Smith
Sex Toys
Mouths, Tongues, & Lips (Oh My!): 7 Top-Rated Oral Sex Toys On Am...
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Charlotte Lewis
Sex
Outercourse Is Much More Than An Entree To The Main Event
Hopefully we all know this by now: penetration is not the be-all, end-all for sex. As much as the media, society and, yes, probably the patriarchy have tri
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Shaeden Berry
Sex Re-Education
2 Women On How Vaginismus Doesn’t Stop Them From Feeling Pleasure
The first time Azia Mery, 25, tried to have penetrative sex seven years ago, she went from feeling nervous to absolutely terrified. Her boyfriend at the ti
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Elizabeth Gulino
Relationships
Casual Relationships Need Boundaries Too
Since the dawn of time — or maybe the “Summer Nights” duet from Grease — situationships and flings have been a fun way to maintain no-strings conne
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Lexi Inks
Sex Re-Education
Is Your First Orgasm Supposed To Be The Best One You’ll Ever Have?
The first time Kara* had an orgasm, she blacked out. “It took me to another dimension,” she tells Refinery29. She was in her first year at university a
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Elizabeth Gulino
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Lelo’s Best-Selling Vibrator Is Finally On Sale
It’s no secret that Lelo’s advanced sex tech is at the forefront of the pleasure-distributing industry. In fact, its cutting-edge luxury vibrat
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Charlotte Lewis
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How Learning Your Desire Style Could Help Spice Up Your Sex Life
When you hear the word “desire” do you think of burning hot passions? A low urgent feeling in your belly? Do you think of Hollywood movies
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Shaeden Berry
Most Wanted
Here’s Why You Really Need A Rose Vibrator
We’re spoilt for choice when it comes to sex toys and there really is something to suit almost any need. Some vibrate softly, others offer hands-free fun
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Lauren Cunningham
Sex
Here’s How Anxiety Affects Your Ability To Orgasm
If you’re someone who deals with stress and anxiety, the unwanted mental and physical effects can creep up during the most inopportune times. Perhaps you
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Claire Fox
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So That's Why You Get So Horny During Your Period
If sex drives followed the perfectly-laid plan of your menstrual cycle, then you’d feel your sexiest around 10 to 13 days after your period ends, bec
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Kasandra Brabaw
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Fight, Flight Or Freezing In Bed: What To Do When You Get Sexual ...
If you’ve ever dealt with sexual anxiety, you’ll know it’s the last thing you want in bed. Even if the lighting is just right and the music is su
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Nina Miyashita
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Lovehoney’s Sex Toy Advent Calendar Is Here & Saving You Ov...
Whether it’s a viral Amazon wand or a soul-snatching suction vibrator, we have infinite love in our hearts for all kinds of sex toys. And no retailer
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Charlotte Lewis
Unbothered
The Driest Winter Ever: How I Gave Up Masturbation For One Month
This story includes sexually explicit language. Welcome to Don’t Yuck My Yummm, Unbothered’s sexual wellness column and digital diary aimed a
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Kourtney Pope
Single Files
I Have Herpes, And Here’s How It Has Affected My Dating Life
Laying on my back, spread eagle in front of a person I just met is never how I want my stories to start, but alas, that was the beginning of one of the mos
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Lexi Inks
Sex Re-Education
Why Women Love Making Fictional Men Have Sex
“I find the idea of one hot man appealing, so I consequently find the idea of two hot men appealing, too,” wrote anonymous user Dark Twin in he
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Sadhbh O'Sullivan
Relationships
What You Should Know Before Watching Porn With Your Partner
Even as we progress further into being a more sex-positive society, when it comes to porn, we’re often still quite divided. With a history of present
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Nina Miyashita
Sex
A Beginner’s Guide To Masturbating: The Hows, Whats & Wheres
I was a late bloomer when it came to exploring my body, only masturbating for the first time at the age of 24. Since then, I’ve more than made up for mis
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Lauren Cunningham
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