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I probably would’ve slept around a lot more in high school if I could’ve taken my pants off without help. But, sex was the last thing on my mind after I broke my neck at the age of fourteen. On a late August afternoon, one week before starting my freshman year of high school, I wanted to show off to the neighborhood read
I’m going to let you in on a secret: I didn’t really know how to touch myself until I was in college. I was sexually active, sure, but I was about as comfortable with a vibrator as I was with a sword (a.k.a., not at all) and I was utterly clueless about what to do with my own hands. Is this surprising? We tend to read