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If your frizzy hair experience has been anything like mine, your life changed when you acquired (or invested in) a legit hair straightener. But, it also got a little more boring. Impromptu beach trip? Nah, I just straightened my hair. I’m not here to tell you to go natural because for me, “going natural” means read