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I am afraid of spiders. But, not like in an "oh, there's a spider on the wall, can you kill it for me?' kind of way. No. It's more like, the mere thought of one makes me want to tear my skin off and set my brain on fire. It's reaction befitting creatures that were born in the pits of hell, I think. Because of this phobia, read
I'm a 17-year-old female virgin and I love my boyfriend, but I'm so scared to have sex; sometimes I will move and I will just randomly queef?! I really don't want to have sex with him just because I'm scared I'll queef in bed and die of embarrassment. I'm ready for sex, but that's putting me off. read