Katie Hintz-Zambrano, senior editor, West Coast

To give: "We've got a baby on the way in a matter of weeks, so collecting more 'stuff' wouldn't be wise. Instead, I want to treat my husband (um, and myself) to a day at The Spa at Carneros Inn in Napa. The folks there give the best pre-natal massage around, plus there's a pool overlooking the vineyards that's just beyond. I'm all about giving experience gifts!"
The Carneros Inn Spa, packages available here.

To get: "After four years of marriage, I'm looking to upgrade my wedding band, which right now is just simple white gold with an inscription. I was lucky and won a diamond necklace at a wedding fair a while back, but the sparklers are arranged in a somewhat lame heart-shape at the moment. So, I'd love for a local jewelry designer (I'm looking at you Sarah Swell!) to knock those rocks out and put them into a cool gold band."
Sarah Swell Fern Dell Ring, $1,475, available at Sarah Swell.