Kelsey Miller, SEO editor

To give: "For selfish reasons, I may get him this four-cup French press. His is tiny, which means we have to take turns drinking coffee in the morning. That can't be good for our relationship in the long term."
Bodum 4-Cup Chambord Press Coffee Maker, $36.99, available at Bed Bath & Beyond.

To get: "I'm kind of finicky about jewelry, which is why I'm obsessed with Brooklyn Charm (where you can make your own with their zillions of charms and supplies). I generally think gift cards are a little weird to get from your boyfriend, but I would not be mad if he got me one to this place so I could make myself something from both of us."
Jewelry available at Brooklyn Charm.