7 Sexy Role-Play Ideas To Amp Up Routine Sex

By role-playing with your partner, you can abandon all inhibitions, get into character, and act out your most secret sexual fantasies. Did you have a crush on a hot professor in college, a former boss, or the cute barista from your local coffee shop? Or did you perhaps find yourself aroused by the idea of anonymous sex with a stranger? With role-playing, you can do all of those things and more — without cheating on your partner or leaving the security of your current relationship.

You've likely seen a variety of role-playing scenarios depicted in your favorite movies and television shows. (Remember when Samantha from Sex and the City would only have sex with her hunky boyfriend Jerry "Smith" Jerrod if they were role-playing?) However, if you're new to role-playing, you might be unsure of where to start. From classic characters (like French maid) to less conventional ideas (like photographer and model), we've detailed seven fun and inspiring role-playing ideas.

Did we mention that role-playing can involve costumes? It's basically the grown-up version of playing dress up, except orgasms are involved.

Student & Teacher

Raise your hand (yes, like you did in school) if you've ever had a crush on a teacher. In the student/teacher role-playing scenario, it's all about power dynamics — which makes it a great opportunity to try spanking. Break out an old Abercrombie & Fitch skirt and bring an apple to your "teacher" to win their affections, but get ready to be spanked if you haven't done your homework.
Two Strangers

Not all role-playing scenarios need be confined to the bedroom. Get out of your living spaces and pretend to be two strangers who meet at the bar and fall in lust over martinis. Maybe you're so into each other and excited that you have to have a quickie in the bar restroom.
Executive & Secretary

Sleeping with your boss can be problematic and creepy in real life, but when pretending with a consensual partner, it can be hot AF. If you're the secretary, dress up in an old blouse that you don't mind being ripped open, or try a suit if you're the executive (ties can be fun, too). The best part of this scenario? Having one of you give oral sex under a desk (if you don't have one at home, a kitchen or dining room table works with a little imagination).
Masseuse & Client

This role-playing scenario is the perfect opportunity to show off your massage skills, or lie back and receive pleasure in a relaxing, candle-lit environment (a.k.a. your bedroom-turned-spa). By playing masseuse and client, not only does someone get a massage, but a happy ending is guaranteed. Not sure how to give a massage? Here are some tips, plus some great massage candles to try.
Photographer & Model

If you trust your partner with your nudes, buy a Polaroid camera and have the dominant partner play the pervy photographer who takes advantage of the sexy lingerie model. This role-playing arousal can last well beyond that particular night, since you can always look back at those photos. If you aren't down with having nudes taken, use a toy camera and pretend. Role-playing is all about imagination, after all.
French Maid & Boss

This one's a classic that never goes out of style. Have the maid get down on her knees to get those hard-to-reach spots and go from there. Plus, if you invest in a duster, you might actually get some real cleaning done. It's multi-tasking at its finest.
Doctor & Patient

The hottest part of this is the examination. If you have a vagina, play patient while your partner plays doctor and examines your sexy bits, pinching nipples and inserting fingers into your vagina (we suggest buying black latex gloves). This one's easy to try, since you can get supplies from your local drug store, although if you really like it, some hard-core medical fetish supply stores are happy to serve you.