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If you're a female in this city and single, chances are, you’re online dating. Hey, there ain’t no shame in the game — it’s the future, ladies. Yup, the expansion of the virtual-romance playground has reached a fever pitch with OkCupid and Tinder taking Internet dating mainstream.
But, there are plenty of fish out there, so in order to find out what’s really happening on all those sites and help you choose the right for you, we dove right into the deep end to get the 411 from five local, clued-in ladies. Read on as they dish about e-dating etiquette, success stories, and epic fails. You live and you learn. Get ready to jump in!
Photographed by Maria del Rio