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Just to be clear, we’re not saying that a Kate Spade bag is going to change your life (although this could fuel exactly the kind of conversation you want to start!). But, we do love the emblazoned tote’s moxie-laden message. Sometimes, to get what you want, you just have to buck up and be brazen. No one’s saying it’s easy, but we’re giving you the get-out-of-jail-free card for flirting up a storm, assertively asking for that raise you so deserve, and maybe even learning the word “no.” If you don’t speak up for yourself, no one else will. #thisisyouryear

Kate Spade 'Is This Seat Taken?' Terry, $248, available at Kate Spade.