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Over eight million people may live in New York City, but have you ever felt like the dating scene is filled with slim pickings? We don't want to say finding a partner here is akin to participating in the Hunger Games, but doesn't it sometimes feel that you're fighting to the death just to find someone you click with — read
Three years ago, I was on top of the world. I had just paid off — in full — the balance of my student loans, my first novel was about to be published, and I had a thriving freelance career that allowed me enough of an income to not only support myself, but my live-in boyfriend, who I helped put through school as well. read